• May 7, 2026
    Most Important Questions & Answers

    Most Important Questions & Answers

    Everyone has different families, beliefs, and ideas. We believe children should be able to learn about different beliefs and decide what they think for themselves as they grow up. You are allowed to disagree with anyone's religion and answers, including ours.

    Here are some questions you might have!

    ======== RELIGION QUESTIONS ========

    Which religion should I choose?

    You can learn about different religions and decide what you believe when you are ready. You can be religious, follow a different religion from your family, or have no religion at all.

    There is nothing wrong with being different from other people.

    Are there really gods?

    Different people have different beliefs about gods. We believe there is not enough scientific evidence to show that gods exist. Other people may believe differently, and we should treat them with respect.

    Is Satan or Lucifer real?

    We do not believe that a real Satan or Lucifer is secretly living somewhere. The fictional symbol of Satan to us represents questioning rules, thinking for yourself, and standing up for what you believe is right.

    Someone told me I'm going to Hell. Should I be scared?

    You do not need to be scared, as we believe there is no scientific evidence to prove the existence of Hell at all. Different religions have different ideas about what happens after we die.

    If someone is using Hell as a threat, they want to use their religion to control you, so you should ignore their threats and live your life.

    What happens when someone dies?

    Nobody knows everything about what happens after death. We believe that there is no afterlife. Instead, we can focus on the life we have now.

    When someone we love dies, it is okay to feel sad. We can remember the good times we shared with them.

    My family is religious. Do I have to believe everything they believe?

    You do not have to agree with your family's religion. You may be pushed by your parents into joining their religion, but you do not have to.As you grow up, you can learn about different ideas and think about what you truly believe.

    Is it wrong to believe something different from my parents?

    Not at all! People in the same family can have different opinions and beliefs. You can love and respect your family even when you don't agree about everything.

    ======== FAMILY QUESTIONS ========

    Is it wrong for my parents to get divorced?

    It is not wrong for parents to get divorced. Sometimes parents decide that living separately is better for their family. A divorce can be difficult, but it is never a child's fault. It is safer for a bad marriage to end, than for a bad marriage to be forced.

    Is it okay for my parents to attack each other?

    Not at all! People should not attack each other. If you see violence at home or feel unsafe, tell a trusted adult who can help keep you safe.

    Is it okay for my parents to spank or hit me?

    Not at all! Many religions believe hitting children can help them, but it is abuse, and if your parents hit you in any way, it should be reported to a trusted adult.

    === GENDER & IDENTITY QUESTIONS ===

    Is it okay to be gay?

    Yes! People can be gay and still be happy, healthy, and wonderful people. No one should be treated differently for their sexuality. What matters is being kind, respecting other people's boundaries, and making sure everyone is safe.

    Is it okay to be transgender?

    Yes! Transgender people can be happy, healthy, and wonderful people too. No one should be treated differently for their gender-identity. What matters is being kind, respecting other people's boundaries, and making sure everyone is safe.


    What pronouns should I use?

    You should use the pronouns you love the most. Some people use he, some use she, and some use they or other pronouns.

    Should I use my classmates' pronouns?

    Yes! Using someone's pronouns is a simple way to show respect. If you accidentally use the wrong pronouns for your classmate, you can apologize and try again, or ask them what their pronouns are.

    Can I wear a dress if i'm a boy? Or wear pants of i'm a girl?

    Yes! People can enjoy different clothes, hairstyles, colors, toys, and activities, regardless of their sex or gender. The only people who get mad at boys wearing dresses, or girls wearing pants are bullies.

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